As for soulmates, the science points to a paradox. The people who end up with relationships that feel uniquely "meant to be" are often the ones who stopped waiting for fate, turned towards the flawed person in front of them and said, in effect: shall we make something of this?
这叫“变工”，讲究人多力量大，也是一种在乡村社会里衍生出的互助生存模式。秋收后碾麦子和胡麻，逢年过节杀羊杀猪，还有红白喜事彼此帮忙办席。这样一来，不仅效率高，还有热火朝天的热闹气氛。
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